What is my self-perception?
Seek Positive Role Models: Seek out mentors, friends, or public figures who inspire
and uplift you, and learn from their examples.
Mirror Work with Affirmations: Say affirmations such as "I am worthy," "I am
enough," or "I love and accept myself unconditionally" while maintaining eye contact with
yourself. This practice can feel uncomfortable at first but can be deeply transformative in
reshaping your self-image and building self-compassion.
Letter from Your Future Self: Who you aspire to become and how you envision your
life unfolding. Describe your future achievements, growth, and fulfillment, and offer words
of encouragement, wisdom, and support to your present self.
What standard am I holding myself to?
Practice Self-Reflection: About your strengths, areas for growth, and personal
values, Consider how they influence your self-image. Use journaling, meditation, or guided
reflection exercises to gain insight into your self-evaluation processes.
Practice Perspective-Taking: Consider the full context of others' lives and
accomplishments, including the challenges and sacrifices they may have faced. Recognize that
everyone's path is different, and focus on embracing your own journey rather than comparing
it to others'.
Soul Collage: Using images, words, and symbols that resonate with different aspects
of your self-image and identity. Use magazines, photographs, and found objects to collage a
visual representation of your inner world.
How do I perceive myself as an individual?
Challenge Stereotypes: Within yourself and in society at large. Educate yourself
about the harmful effects of stereotypes and prejudices, and actively work to dismantle them
in your thoughts, words, and actions.
Identity Exploration: Intentionally adopt different personas, roles, or expressions
that challenge your existing self-image and identity. Engage in activities such as cosplay,
role-playing games, or performance art where you can embody alternative identities.
Spiritual Self-Inquiry: Explore existential questions of identity, purpose, and
meaning beyond conventional frameworks. Engage in contemplative practices such as
meditation, mindfulness, or existential philosophy to deepen your understanding of your true
nature and essence beyond societal labels.